Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

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Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...

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Podcast Episode 19: Building Your Ideal Relationship

February 10 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Turns out, when you shed the societal expectations of what relationships are meant to look like, you can pick & choose what elements work best for you.

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My Swingset Takes Desire 2017 Moments

December 26 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Swingset Takes Over Desire is truly is an incredible experience and I hope someday to return and overwrite the difficult memories with a whole lot more sexy fun.

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The More The Merrier (Until It's Not)

December 1 | by Kat Stark | Blog

You may find yourself liking and/or loving those things too, metamours turn into paramours, and you may settle into some polyam smugness about how great you are all are at this non-monogamy thing.

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But We Scheduled This Months Ago

November 2 | by Kat Stark | Blog

You've all gotten together after much planning and discussions of fantasies you all want fulfilled but when you get to the moment, people aren't always up for it and it's important to know that it's okay to opt-out.

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The Lonely Pervert

October 19 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Breaching the walls of decorum and what we 'should' talk about is one of my favourite things and I revel in the friendships that include that element.

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Attachment Styles: Turns Out I'm Not An Emotionless Automaton

August 10, 2017 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Monogamous people usually only need to worry about figuring out one of these but we ethically non-monogamous folks tend get multiple styles in multiple relationships. Whee! So lucky!

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When Love Gets in the Way

July 13, 2017 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I have been guilty of hanging onto things for far too long that weren't good for me or the other person because I loved them. We weren't in the same place mentally and emotionally.

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Podcast Episode 12: Impermanence, Breakups, and Relationship Transitions

July 1, 2017 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Not every relationship lasts forever--Whaaa?--turns out that happily ever after was kind of a fraudulent bill of goods we were sold as kids watching Disney movies. Relationships end or sometimes transition into subtly or entirely different forms.

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