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Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...

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Podcast Episode 31: Libido & Desire

March 17, 2019 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Stress, fatigue, hormones, depression, body image, and connectivity are just a few of the things that can affect a person’s libido.

TAGS: BDSM, angst, anxiety, autonomy, bisexual, body image, boundaries, communication, consent, dating, empathy, expectations, feels, flirting, group sex, impact play, insecurity, learning curve, masturbation, mental illness, needs, non-monogamy, play party, podcast, polyamory, public sex, queer, relationships, sex, sex toys, sexism, sexting, sexuality, stress, swinging, vulnerability
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But We Scheduled This Months Ago

November 2, 2017 | by Kat Stark | Blog

You've all gotten together after much planning and discussions of fantasies you all want fulfilled but when you get to the moment, people aren't always up for it and it's important to know that it's okay to opt-out.

TAGS: Bex, Elle, Flick, Will, anxiety, bisexual, communication, dating, expectations, feels, insecurity, intimacy, masturbation, non-monogamy, open relationship, play party, poly, polyamory, relationships, sex, sexuality, sexy vacations, stress, swinging, threesome, travel, vulnerability
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Stepping Out of my Comfort Zone

March 22, 2017 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I decided to take the initiative and privately messaged the woman I'd been crushing on to tell her that I thought she was sexy and would love to play if she was interested. She was--Squee!

TAGS: Elle, Will, anxiety, bisexual, electrostim, flirting, fuckation, group sex, insecurity, non-monogamy, open relationship, orgy, pansexual, play party, polyamory, queer, sex, sex toys, sexting, squirting, strap-on, swinging, travel, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 8: Group Sex Part Two

March 10, 2017 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

On this episode of On The Wet Coast we're discussing Group Sex: Threesomes, Foursomes, Moresomes, and the amazing orgy.

TAGS: bisexual, communication, exhibitionism, foursome, group sex, non-monogamy, online dating, open relationship, orgy, pansexual, play party, podcast, poly, polyamory, queer, threesome, unicorn, voyeur
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Getting Sultry

February 10, 2017 | by Kat Stark | Blog

We eventually had a very large audience for our varied combinations of bodies and silicone or bio cock in multiple orifices.

TAGS: Declan, Dot, FWB, Flick, Iris, Som, anal, bisexual, dildo, exhibitionist, flogging, group sex, harness, non-monogamy, open relationship, orgy, pansexual, play party, polyamory, public sex, queer, sex, sex toys, shenanniversary, strap-on, voyeur
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I'm More Attracted to Men but I Have More Sex With Women

December 9, 2016 | with Kat Stark | Blog

Oh, the lady pile. It's a place I've found myself more often than I'd have expected to do so, considering that I find myself more into cock than pussy.

TAGS: Desire Resort, Life on the Swingset, Ophilia, Peach, Raina, Will, anxiety, bisexual, dildo, double ender, female ejaculation, feminism, fuckation, group sex, insecurity, lady pile, ladybang, magic wand, nJoy eleven, non-monogamy, open relationship, orgy, pansexual, play party, poly, polyamory, queer, slut shame, squirting, swinging, travel, voyeur, vulnerability
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I Went to a Sexy Dinner and Play Party and Learned I Fuck Like a Rock Star

September 2, 2016 | with Kat Stark | Blog

Emboldened by my uncharacteristic bravery, I kept channelling it and once we'd moved into the play space, I asked a fully-dressed guy I didn't know very well if he thought he was wearing too many clothes and if he wanted me to help remedy that. He did want that. Shortly after, when the first few people got completely naked, I did the same.

TAGS: Flick, Olivia, Raina, San Francisco, Wes, bisexual, exhibitionism, female ejaculation, fuckation, group sex, lady pile, non-monogamy, our gourmet life, play party, poly, polyamory, queer, sex, squirting, strap-on, swinging, travel, voyeur
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Swinging in the Deep End: Anxiety Strikes Back

May 6, 2016 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I felt extraneous and in the way of him finding fun so I pulled way back, and essentially avoided him. It was not the right call for me.

TAGS: Will, anxiety, expectations, feels, growing pains, learning curve, non-monogamy, open relationship, play party, poly, polyamory, sex, stress, travel
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