Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

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Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...

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Podcast Episode 28: Have You Met Flick?

December 17, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

On this episode of On The Wet Coast, you get a chance to peek behind the curtain and learn more about self-described Super Villain, Gamer, geek, and resident know-it-all Flick Morrison.

TAGS: Flick, anal, angst, breakups, communication, compersion, dating, expectations, first time, group sex, intimacy, kink, learning curve, love, mental illness, needs, non-monogamy, open relationship, origin story, pegging, podcast, poly, polyamory, rejection, relationships, sex, swinging, travel, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 25: Kinky Communication

September 7, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

We hang onto a lot of the messages we got about sex growing up and even those of us who consider ourselves very open about our sexuality still retain many of the hangups and shame feelings.

TAGS: BDSM, bisexual, communication, consent, dating, impact play, kink, non-monogamy, open relationship, podcast, polyamory, relationships, safer sex, sex, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 18: Fantasies

January 13, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Fantasizing is big part of most healthy sex lives. We fantasize about things we’d like to have done to us and/or what we’d like to do to others.

TAGS: BDSM, Desire Resort, Flick, angst, anxiety, bottom, boundaries, communication, compersion, dating, exhibitionism, exhibitionist, impact play, jealousy, kink, learning curve, masturbation, non-monogamy, objectification, open relationship, podcast, poly, polyamory, public sex, queer, relationships, risk aware sex, sex, spontaneous orgasms, stress, submission, top, voyeur, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 13: Fitting In

August 3, 2017 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

People whose identities don't conform to the norms within a community often feel isolated from that community. Figuring out how to fit in when you don't hew to the line of a group is an incredible challenge.

TAGS: BDSM, bisexual, community, geek, insecurity, kink, lifestyle, non-monogamy, podcast, polyamory, queer, swinging
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I Broke My Kinky

July 18, 2016 | by Kat Stark | Blog

One of the main things I'd been excited about exploring when we started our non-monogamy journey was my uncharted kinky side. Flick and I had done a small amount of experimenting over our relationship but it was limited in scope and hadn't happened for approximately a decade.

TAGS: BDSM, Flick, Hot Mama, Iris, angst, bisexual, flogging, growing pains, impact play, kink, non-monogamy, open relationship, pansexual, poly, queer, spanking, submission, swinging, triad
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