Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

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Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...

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Podcast Episode 38: Accountability and Consent

November 1, 2019 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Victor will help guide us through some of the ways we can make our consent negotiations lead to "high quality" consent so our playtimes can be great for everyone involved.

TAGS: BDSM, anxiety, boundaries, communication, community, consent, expectations, gangbang, insecurity, intimacy, misogyny, non-monogamy, open relationship, pansexual, podcast, poly, polyamory, queer, rejection, relationships, sex, sexuality, stress, submission, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 27: Jealousy Revisited

November 19, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Jealousy is almost always the reason people cite when they state that they couldn't ever be non-monogamous yet plenty of non-monogamous and polyamorous people experience jealousy regularly.

TAGS: Hot Mama, anxiety, boundaries, communication, dating, empathy, feels, flirting, growing pains, impermanence, insecurity, intimacy, jealousy, needs, non-monogamy, open relationship, podcast, poly, polyamory, relationships, sexuality, stress, submission, swinging, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 18: Fantasies

January 13, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Fantasizing is big part of most healthy sex lives. We fantasize about things we’d like to have done to us and/or what we’d like to do to others.

TAGS: BDSM, Desire Resort, Flick, angst, anxiety, bottom, boundaries, communication, compersion, dating, exhibitionism, exhibitionist, impact play, jealousy, kink, learning curve, masturbation, non-monogamy, objectification, open relationship, podcast, poly, polyamory, public sex, queer, relationships, risk aware sex, sex, spontaneous orgasms, stress, submission, top, voyeur, vulnerability
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I Broke My Kinky

July 18, 2016 | by Kat Stark | Blog

One of the main things I'd been excited about exploring when we started our non-monogamy journey was my uncharted kinky side. Flick and I had done a small amount of experimenting over our relationship but it was limited in scope and hadn't happened for approximately a decade.

TAGS: BDSM, Flick, Hot Mama, Iris, angst, bisexual, flogging, growing pains, impact play, kink, non-monogamy, open relationship, pansexual, poly, queer, spanking, submission, swinging, triad
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