Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

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Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...

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Getting to Open Part 2

October 2, 2015 | by Kat Stark | Blog

After a generous application of beer and whiskey to my nerves, I asked one of our friends I knew was openly bisexual if she'd like to join us and she said yes.

TAGS: growing pains, learning curve, non-monogamy, okcupid, online dating, open relationship, poly, swinging, threesome

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Rejection Suxxor

April 2, 2015 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I mean, there were a lot of things that likely wouldn't have made us compatible, but it still sucks to be judged as wanting by a potential partner.

TAGS: anxiety, bisexual, feels, growing pains, insecurity, learning curve, non-monogamy, online dating, open relationship, queer, rejection, stress, vulnerability

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So Many Firsts

March 22, 2015 | by Kat Stark | Blog

G was pressed up behind me, T was cuddled against my chest while Flick ate her pussy, and someone was fingering me. I didn't know who it was. It was probably the most delicious, hedonistic moment of my life.

TAGS: Liberator Throe, bisexual, female ejaculation, first time, foursome, g-spot, group sex, lifestyle, nJoy Pure Wand, non-monogamy, online dating, open relationship, queer, sex, squirting, swinging

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Our First Swinger Date

March 3, 2015 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I was so nervous all the next day. Were they going to like us? Was my undercarriage grooming up to par? Was my undercarriage itself up to par? We should totally cancel.