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AudiobookTwenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...
It was strange after having several years of super-sexy discovery and exploration to slip into a mode where the sexual piece of me that I’d considered so foundational to my identity was nearly entirely shut off.
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Nearly everyone we know claims to be bad at flirting, us included, but somehow many of us are scoring dates and getting laid.
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Author and researcher of sociology and anthropology Brenda Wiebe has written Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack my Love Life, a review of different relationship patterns throughout human history in combination with her own intimate journal entries.
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I came across this piece of writing, from my LiveJournal in October 2014, nearly a year before Flick and I began discussing becoming non-monogamous. Little did Baby Kat know what was in store for her.
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Turns out, when you shed the societal expectations of what relationships are meant to look like, you can pick & choose what elements work best for you.
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At the same time, I feel an immediate sense of loss because I know that they're not going to be as available to me. Then I feel guilty for being selfish and clingy.
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Fantasizing is big part of most healthy sex lives. We fantasize about things we’d like to have done to us and/or what we’d like to do to others.
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We on the Wet Coast are huge fans of sex toys. We have a large collection and use them regularly both in solo play and with our partners.
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