I've always had a bit of an obsession with over-the-top giant sex toys despite my inability to necessarily accommodate them in my body. Vaginal fisting, therefore, has been a huge fantasy for me, and although I still haven't been able to experience it, I was lucky enough to perform it on another recently, and it was one of the most incredible sexual experiences I've had.
Determined as I always am to perform feats that my body isn't necessarily on board with,
There have been three separate times when partners and I have made a focused effort to attempt to fist me. The first was several years ago with a regular partner. She has tiny hands so it seemed like it would be easy enough but once we hit her knuckles, my body said NOPE! Waiting patiently got us a little further but my body's resistance eventually felt like it was going to break her fingers so we called it.
The next attempt was a couple years later at a sexy party where a handsome gentleman offered to help me make it happen. I'd watched him fist someone else at a conference demonstration so I trusted his expertise. He had fairly small hands and a lot of experience so I thought it was worth another attempt. At the time, he also had a shoulder injury which became the limiting factor when my vag put up its usual resistance.
The most recent attempt was at my birthday Babe Bang earlier this year when one of the participants offered to use her hand rather than a silicone phallus for her part of the bang. She and I are hand twins so I thought it was a promising option, and I'd already been fucked six times that evening so I was extremely warmed up. Surrounded by a sexy supportive audience, I thought it would happen for sure, but the bones of my pelvic outlet were having none of it. The longer we waited and tried to have my body let go, the more resistant it became and the risk of crushing her bones became imminent. Again, she wanted to maintain use of her hand so we needed to stop. *sad trombone*
Lucky for me, fisting isn't all about receiving. Sometimes you get to be the hand in the scenario. During a date with a woman I've been seeing recently, she told me she liked a lot of fingers. Once we were up to four and she was still loving it, we lubed up my hand even more and I was able to slide it fully inside her pussy. It was one of the hottest things ever.
I couldn't believe how incredible it felt, not to mention how hot it looked to see my glove-clad wrist disappear inside her. When she asked me to fuck her hard, I had to focus on not dying of hot so I could do a good job.
I could feel so many more sensations through her pussy than ever before. Each contraction and clench told me which motions she responded more to (I could even feel the wire of her IUD on my knuckle, which was cool). As she got closer and closer to orgasm, she clenched harder and harder and the sex geek and anatomy geeks in me were squeeing equally.
It may be that I am destined to be fister than fistee, which I've discovered could be a very satisfying option. I'm willing to keep trying, perhaps attempting on myself if I can manage the wrist flexibility. The big ends of the Njoy Eleven and Swan Wands are other potential assistants. I normally have several moments of a little too much intensity as they pass under my pubic bone, and it are far less bumpy than a hand. Practicing with those toys more might help me open up.
Or maybe it won't, and fistee isn't a role I will ever be able to play. Fister is a really great option and at least I get to have a lot of fun trying!
